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It is heartbreaking to watch your child care deeply about someone who does not feel the same way. Sometimes it is subtle – a friend who never texts back, who only wants to play when no one else is around. Other times it is brutal, with outright rejection,[…]
Read MoreEvery now and then, I’ll get a message from a practitioner in meltdown. “My ads aren’t working.” “Website traffic’s down.” “No one’s booking discovery calls.” “Something’s broken — I think it’s the automations.” And I get it — when you’re not getting leads, it feels like something big[…]
Read MoreThere’s a walk I do nearly every day. Same route. Same rhythm. It’s my way of clearing my head, moving my body, and finding a little bit of peace before the world starts demanding things from me. The other day, I did the same walk — just a[…]
Read MoreChildren can become addicted to their own thoughts – and not the happy, creative ones we wish for them. Sometimes the most dangerous habits are the quiet ones. The habits no one else can see. The ones that happen entirely inside a child’s mind, long before any adult[…]
Read MoreLet me tell you what I caught myself doing this week. Indulging in made-up drama. Again. Full-blown stress fantasies – arguments that have not happened, problems that do not yet exist, futures I have already emotionally survived despite them being entirely fictional. And here is the uncomfortable truth[…]
Read MoreLet’s start with an uncomfortable thought experiment. Imagine you have a newborn baby. It cries when it needs feeding. It doesn’t contribute to the mortgage. It doesn’t go to work. It doesn’t even say thank you. It is needy, expensive, and wildly unimpressive by productivity standards. And yet,[…]
Read MoreThere is a peculiar pattern I’ve started to notice. And I say this with love and zero judgement. But if your family owns a bearded dragon… …there’s a possibility your household might be an emotional battlefield with a heat lamp. I don’t know how or why this keeps[…]
Read MoreOne of the challenges with using NLP with children is that NLP already has a reputation for working fast. Much faster than most traditional talk therapies. Fewer sessions. Quicker shifts. Less revisiting of the past. And then you add children into the mix – and things can move[…]
Read MoreYou might have heard me suggest, from time to time, that adults go on a full, hardcore media ban. No news humming ominously in the background while you drive. No scrolling. No headlines shouting catastrophe before breakfast. And if you have ever tried it, you will know this[…]
Read MoreSome people come to us already trained. NLP certificates, coaching diplomas, therapy qualifications – the works. And yet… no clients. No income. No functioning business. Just a growing pile of certifications that still haven’t translated into the impact or lifestyle they imagined. Why Qualifications Don’t Automatically Create a[…]
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